01
Consent is mandatory
Every interaction requires an enthusiastic, informed, and ongoing yes. Consent can be withdrawn at any moment, and that decision is always respected instantly.
Code of conduct
The rules that keep us safe
These standards apply to every member, host, and guest, at every event, without exception. Reading and agreeing to them is part of joining.
02
No harassment
Unwanted attention, pressure, or persistence after a no has no place here. A boundary is a complete answer.
03
No photography without permission
Do not photograph or record anyone without their explicit, in-the-moment consent. Screens away unless everyone in frame agrees.
04
Respect privacy
Who you meet and what you see stays within the community. Never share identities, images, or details outside these walls.
05
Follow host & moderator instructions
Hosts are here for everyone’s safety. Their guidance is not optional, and they may ask anyone to step away at their discretion.
06
Zero tolerance
Coercion, intoxicated-consent situations, discrimination, and violence result in immediate removal and a permanent ban. No exceptions.
A boundary is a complete answer.
If something ever feels wrong, find a host — they are trained, present, and here for you. Reports are taken seriously and handled with discretion.